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cassandra: RE: TO YOUR ANSWER ABOUT MY SONS CARSEAT.?

YOUR RESPONSE: So, are you breastfeeding and keeping your child safe from the emotional trauma, social damage, and intellectual devastation of day care? Are you responding sensitively to your child? Are you giving him a soothing, safe home where he sleeps with/near his parents, is never hit, is talked to and sung with and held on demand? So, are you breastfeeding? YES, I AM keeping your child safe from the emotional trauma, social damage, and intellectual devastation of day care? I'M A SAHM, SO YES Are you responding sensitively to your child? Are you giving him a soothing, safe home where he sleeps with/near his parents, is never hit, is talked to and sung with and held on demand? HE'S THREE MONTHS OLD, BUT YES, WE COSLEEP, I WILL ABSOLUTELY NEVER HIT HIM AS I WAS HIT EVERYDAY AS A CHILD, AND I SING TO HIM PRETTY MUCH CONSTANTLY TO THE POINT WHERE MY HUSBAND HAS TO ASK ME TO HUSH SOMETIMES. Insuring his safety is my top priority right now. So, if we get in a wreck on the way to get his pictures make today and he is killed I won't have to live with that for the rest of my life thinking "Well, at least I had three months and was able to sing to him and play with him while he was here.." scorpiorn77074: There isn't one. It's a RE:(response) to her answer.

Public Comments

1. So, what is your question?
2. Hey, why don't you exchange the carseat, then maybe you don't have to pay for a new one maybe just pay the difference. If that doesn't work, brake the latch off and say it was an accident. It happened to me when I put the carseat in the stroller and it wouldn't come out, I kept pulling and pulling and finally the latch just cracked off. You want something, make it happen.
3. ok it took some time to read your last post and figure out where you are comming from now I have 3 children our oldest was in a carrier and when I had my second I intended on passing down but a new study proved our unsafe now I was very hormonal and my husband (probably tring to avoid a fight) let me get a new one even tho we could not afford it now we have bout the carseat you are talking about...child 3 is 6 months....and there is a study on tv that shows almost all infant carseats unsafe!!! so no what....we cannot afford to buy a new one...so I have gone to the PD and the Fire Dept and had 3 different people check it from different places not car seat will be safe all the time...I know exactly how you feel....if YOUR carseat is in safe then you will be ok....is this your first child bc out first we freaked out about everything and never thought we were until now when we look back....also and I am going to stress this you are your childs parent and DO NOT HAVE to explain to anyone EVER how you are raising your child it is your choice to breast feed or not and where they sleep is also your choice. If you are not being investagated by DCFS for neglect and you are not neglecting your child and doing the best you can then tell everone else to shove it...it is yahoo answeres not a judgement of your life as a parent....you are on to ask for advise you don't have to listen so it should not be presented as I am right listen to me I am the perfect parent...grrrr I am so irratated at Cassandra for you good luck I hope you get a new seat of become comfortable with the one you have.....